Showing posts with label self-discipline. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self-discipline. Show all posts

Friday, May 5, 2017

Singing Tips Live by Benita Charles - Tip #38



 Benita Charles in New York City

 Singing Tips by Benita Charles - Tip #38

Your Image: Your Behavior (Self-Discipline)


"Do what you gotta do so that you can do what you want to do." -- Edgar Holley, Sr.

In this episode, we discussed self-discipline in terms forming successful habits for success. Self-discipline is one for the keys to success.

Growing up, I've always been a child who loved to play first (pleasure before pain). This has carried through my adult life.  It hasn't worked out too good.  It has lead to missed deadlines, missed opportunities and unnecessary stress. I've decided self-discipline is something I'd like to improve and master.

Here are 3 key ways to improve your self-discipline muscle:

1) Make a list of things that need to be done for the day

     -- Prioritize your list to the top 3 things that need to be done

2) Do the one thing from your priority list that will make the most impact on your life

    -- This will leave you with more time to do the things you want to do

3) Do it even when you don't feel like it (this is the key to self-discipline)

     -- This is the most difficult thing to do and this is the heart of mastering self-discipline.

      -- If you can push through those times when you don't feel like it, success is on the other side.

     -- Sometimes you need a swift kick in the rear-end to get the party started. Get it done!

Best wishes to you as you take your voice to the next level!

Much love,

Benita Charles Music

"Spreading love through music for your inspiration and entertainment!"

http://benitacharles.com

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Monday, April 3, 2017

Singing Tips by Benita Charles Music - Tip #36



 Benita Charles in New York City

Singing Tips by Benita Charles Music - Tip #36

Your Image: Your Behavior (Your Reputation)
Today, we discussed your reputation and ways to enhance it.  

Your Reputation are the beliefs and opinions that are generally held about someone or something.

3 ways to improve your reputation:

1) Dependability
-- Are you dependable? Do you show up when you say you will?
-- My grandfather use to say, "Your word is your bond!" Can people count on the words you say?

2) Punctuality
--Are you on time for your appointments and engagements? Do you value other's time? Do you allow for enough tine for your appointments?
--The famous coach Vince Lombardi was known for his punctuality. He coined the phase, Lombardi time (always arrive 15 minutes before the event). If you're your early, your on tine.  If you're on time, you're late.

3) Self-Discipline

--Self-Discipline is the ability to control and motivate yourself, stay on track and do what is right - even when you don't feel like it.
--Improve your self-discipline and you inprove your chances of success.

 



For this week's Singing Tips by Benita Charles Show, I received a free makeover at the Bluemercury Cosmetics Store in Tribeca, New York City by a lovely lady named Jennifer Byers. She was a representative of Bobby Brown Cosmetics. I was very pleased with the results!

Best wishes to you as you take your voice to the next level!

Much love,

Benita Charles Music

"Spreading love through music for your inspiration and entertainment!"

http://benitacharles.com

Blog: http://singingtipsbybcm.blogspot.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcmsings/

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Email: singingtips.bcm@gmail.com